Proverbs 15:1-5
Choose Gentle Words
Proverbs 15:6-11
Refusal to Take Correction Brings Discipline
Proverbs 15:12-15
We Feed What Our Heart Craves
Proverbs 15:16-22
Love is More Important Than Riches
Proverbs 15:23-27
Wise Leaders Always Seek Advice
Proverbs 15:28-33
The Righteous Weighs His Words Carefully
Proverbs 16:1-11
God’s Sovereignty in Shaping the World
Proverbs 16:5-11
Making Enemies to Be at Peace
Proverbs 16:12-17
Better to Have Wisdom Than Gold
Proverbs 16:18-22
Pride Goes Before Destruction
Proverbs 16:23-26
The Way That Seems Right to Man
Proverbs 16:27-33
A Whisperer Separates Friends
Proverbs 17:1-4
The Lord Tests the Hearts
Proverbs 17:5-9
Children Need to Revere Their Parents
Proverbs 17:10-14
Evil Men Seek Rebellion
Proverbs 17:15-19
A Friend Loves at All Times
Proverbs 17:20-28
A Merry Heart Is Like Medicine
Proverbs 18:1-5
With Dishonor Comes Reproach
Proverbs 18:6-12
A Fool’s Mouth Brings Destruction
Proverbs 18:13-24
A Friend that sticks closer than a Brother
Proverbs 19:1-9
Wealth Makes Many Friends
Proverbs 19:10-19
Chasten Your Son While There is Hope
Proverbs 19:20-29
Judgments Are Prepared For Scoffers
Proverbs 20:1-5
Wine is a Mocker
Proverbs 20:6-10
Who Can Find a Faithful Man?
Proverbs 20:11-20
A Child Is Known By His Deeds
Proverbs 20:21-30
Blows That Hurt Cleanse Away Evil
Proverbs 21:1-10
A Contentious Wife Makes Life Miserable
A Friend that sticks closer than a Brother
Proverbs 18:13–24
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A story is told about Charles Darnay and Sydney Carton who become friends. Darnay, a young Frenchman, is thrown into a dungeon and faces the guillotine. Carton, a wasted lawyer is finishing his life as a loose-living individual in England. Carton hears of Darnay’s imprisonment an … More
Don’t pass judgment until you are fully informed (v. 13). Jumping to conclusions before hearing the facts are unwise and will bring a person to shame. Give yourself the three-way test before speaking about someone: Is it kind? Is it necessary? Is it true? Being cheerful helps when we are sick, but nothing helps when we give up (v. 14). Everyone with good sense wants to learn (v. 15). A gift will get you in to see anyone (v. 16). Most men can make a good case for themselves, if left alone so there is wisdom in hearing both parties face to face (v. 17). To decide a case on one-sided testimony will almost always result in bad judgment and/or unfair verdict. This is true of parents when their children argue. Drawing straws is one way to settle a difficult case (v. 18).
To win a brother back who has been offended is more difficult than to subdue a heavily fortified city (v. 19). Wounded pride and an unwillingness to view a matter in relation to God makes it very difficult to restore the friendship of offended brothers. However, there are few quarrels that could not be settled if both parties were ready to meet quietly before the Lord and talk out their differences and ask for forgiveness. Make your words good; you will be glad you did (v. 20). Words can bring death or life! Talk too much, and you will eat everything you say (v. 21). A man’s greatest treasure is his wife; she is a gift from the Lord (v. 22). The poor must beg for help, but the rich can give a harsh reply (v. 23). Some friends don’t help, but a true friend is closer than your own family (v. 24). We all need friends who will stick close, listen, care and offer help when needed, in good times and in bad.
Application
Instead of wishing I could find a true friend I just need to seek to become one. There are people who need my friendship.
Proverbs 18:13-24 (English Standard Version)
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