The qualifications for a pastor

I Timothy 3:1–7
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If anyone desires to be a church leader he desires and honorable position (v. 1). Fourteen qualifications are given for pastors (“Bishop”, “pastor“ and “elder” are synonymous).

1. blameless - free of accusation; nothing in his life that unbelievers could use to attack (v. 2).

2. husband of one wife - a “one-woman man” (not divorced) (v. 2).

3. vigilant - well balanced (v. 2).

4. sober - self controlled; sound in mind. of good behavior - orderly; respectable (v. 2).

5. given to hospitality - entertain in the home(v. 2).

6. apt to teach - able to understand and communicate the Scriptures to others (v. 2).

7. not given to wine - not a person who drinks alcohol (v. 3).

8. no striker - not violent but gentle (v. 3).

9. patient - able to take criticism without reacting (v. 3).

10. not a brawler - not one who starts quarrels and arguments but a peacemaker (v. 3).

11. not greedy of filthy lucre; not covetous - does not pursue the ministry for personal gain (v. 3).

12. rules well his own house, having his children in subjection - a good family manager whose children obey and respect him (vv. 4-6).

13. not a novice - not a recent convert but gaining spiritual maturity (v. 6).

14. has a good report (testimony) with them which are without - having a good reputation (v. 7). 

Application

I have never been the pastor of a local church, but most of the qualifications listed above are found in other Scripture passages and apply to all Christians. Out of this list what are the things I need to work on the most?