Counsel for Single and Married Christians

I Corinthians 7:1–5
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Sexual immorality is a threshold sin. On one side of the threshold is immorality and on the other is purity. On one side are guilt, lying, deceit, addiction, and shame, an on the other side are freedom, honesty, transparency, liberty, and a clear conscience. Believers who are in … More

Sex

Christians in Corinth were surrounded by sexual temptation. The city had a reputation even among the heathen for sexual immorality and religious prostitution. It was in this kind of society that Paul delivered these instructions on sex and marriage. He deals with a set of problems concerning which the Corinthian Church had written to him, asking advice. This chapter deals with a whole series of these problems regarding marriage.

As you read this chapter, keep in mind that Paul is replying to definite questions and not bringing an exhaustive study on marriage. This is more completely covered in Ephesians, Colossians, and the letters to Timothy. Warren Wiersbe in his book, “Be Wise,” states that Paul’s counsel here is basically to three groups of believers: (1) Christians who are married to Christians - (vv. 1-11), (2) Christians who are married to non-Christians (vv. 12-24), and (3) Un-married Christians (vv. 25-40). One of the questions the church asked Paul was, “Is remaining unmarried more spiritual than marriage?” Not only did the church ask about singleness but they also asked about living with their spouse. This topic is just as relevant in our day as it was when Paul wrote this letter, despite what our modern culture might tell us.

It is a good thing for a man to remain a virgin so long as he is not married (v. 1). Sex outside of marriage is called sexual immorality, a sin against God (Exo. 20:14). God ordained marriage (Gen. 2:24) is the best defense against the temptation to commit sexual immorality (v. 2). Within the confines of marriage, sex is a wonderful display of true intimacy as the two becoming united as one. A married couple should not abstain from having sex or deprive one another of it (vv. 3-4), except perhaps for a set amount of time during which they devote themselves to prayer (v. 5a). But after this break, they should come back together again, lest they be tempted to commit sexual immorality (v. 5b).

Application

If you are still single, take the Lord at his word and choose to save sex for marriage. You won’t regret your choice.

I Corinthians 7:1-5 (English Standard Version)

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