What King Lemuel’s Mother Taught Him

Proverbs 31:1–9
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King Lemuel (some think this was actually King Solomon though we have no proof) was being taught the Word of God by his mother (v. 1). Her vows may mean that she made a vow as Hannah did, before his conception (I Sam. 1:11) or afterwards. She wanted him to know he was special to her. The most important ministry a mother (or father) has is training their children spiritually (see II Timothy 3:15). King Lemuel’s mother boldly warned him about what would destroy him, about sinful companions, strong drink, and failure to obey God’s Word (vv. 2-3). Homes are unhappy and ruined by adulterous men or women and alcohol. Marriage doesn’t change a person’s character; that is the reason it is important to find out your prospective mates’ character before engagement.

Happy is the man or woman who has a God-fearing mother to warn him about sin, and happier is that man or woman that heeds her warnings. Kings and leaders should not get drunk or even want to drink (v. 4). Drinking makes you forget your responsibilities, and you mistreat the poor (v. 5). Drunkenness might be understandable among dying people in great pain, but it is inexcusable for national leaders. Alcohol clouds the mind and can lead to injustice and poor decisions.

The drink in this passage may have been for anesthetics or to deaden physical pain (v. 6). Let them drink and forget how poor and miserable they feel (v. 7). But you must defend those who are helpless and have no hope (v. 8). Be fair and give justice to the poor and homeless (v. 9). This mother was telling her son that others may use drink for a way of escape, but her son was not to do so. He was to judge fairly, regardless of a person’s social status. 

Application

Lord, help me to warn my children and grandchildren about sinful companions and the dangers that they bring? What effect can alcoholic beverages have on the family?