Children Need to Revere Their Parents

Topic: Jealousy
Passage: Proverbs 17:5–9

February 18, 2020

Commentary

Any who rejoice over the misfortune of others are actually mocking God (v. 5). Since the poor are made in God’s image, as all people are, to mock them is to speak against God. I have known people to rejoice when the group they felt in competition with suffered loss and their group became the more prominent one. This is a very wrong and dangerous thing to do and what the warning of this verse is all about. Older folk tend to find great joy in their grandchildren. Also children need to reverence their parents and honor them by showing respect (v. 6).

This passage refers to various forms of injustice; such as lying, bribing, and gossiping (vv. 7-9). The lip is an organ of the heart. “For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh (Matthew 12:34).  Excellent speech reveals an upright heart. Lying lips reveal the heart of a fool (v. 7). Good words from the mouth of an evil man are distasteful and out of place, because the life fails to back up the words. Solomon considers a gift given as a bribe (v. 8). At first glance this verse might appear to be encouraging bribery but we know that it isn’t from other scripture (Proverbs 15:27; Deuteronomy 16:19; Exodus 23:8).

To “cover over a transgression” does not mean to take a light view of sin and let it go unrebuked.  The warning in this verse is to the man who goes about peddling information gained in the confidentiality of such encounters (v. 9). His gossiping will end many friendships and cast reproach upon the name of the Lord. Gossip only hurts people and makes things worse.

Application

I need to pray for people in sister organizations that are doing the same type of ministry I am.   Instead of ignoring them I need to be praying that they will have success.

Proverbs 17:5– 9 (NET)

5 The one who mocks the poor has insulted his Creator; whoever rejoices over disaster will not go unpunished.

6 Grandchildren are like a crown to the elderly, and the glory of children is their parents.

7 Excessive speech is not becoming for a fool; how much less are lies for a ruler!

8 A bribe works like a charm for the one who offers it; in whatever he does he succeeds.

9 The one who forgives an offense seeks love, but whoever repeats a matter separates close friends.